No matter what they say, no matter what you do, in the end all statements of not being offended go down the drain as the bubble invariably pops, nay blasts to unleash the hurricane you always dreaded and yet perversely always hoped would not come to pass this time.  I don’t understand why people consistently claim they are ok with something when they clearly aren’t. more I don’t comprehend how someone you talked to straight through the night, someone you claim makes you laugh like no one else has suddenly ceases to be important because of ego, bruised psyche or whatever.  Do people cease to be important if they act contrary to  what you want/perceive them to be? Is it ok to dispose them off because you had an argument/fight? Aren't they worth the time spent on fighting back/ clarifying the air?

I don’t have the answers to any of this except once again I win the idiot of the millennium award hands down and with more ease and bigger bruises then before. I never learn and THAT is the one invariable in all this, whatever this may or might have been.....