People delight in blaming others for all the wrongs in the world. This is nowhere as true as when it come to offspring’s holding parents responsible for everything that has ever gone wrong. They may be right, they maybe wrong but in the long run that hardly matters. Isn’t there a point after which you are supposed to develop enough for your own actions to determine, to a large extent how your life proceeds. And even if that is fallacious why the hell cant we stop the blame game. I mean logically like the serenity prayers says, why cant we accept what we cant change (if its out of your power just quit whining, except on blogs :P) or change what you can. What the hell is the point of the blame game which does nothing but fester like a pus filled wound spoiling what could be if not beautiful, okay moments of life?
3 comments:
the point of the blame game is that we need to hold someone responsible for the all the things that are going wrong, and since it is very difficult to hold ourselves responsible, we find the people around us to put the burden on - to make ourselves feel better. And usually parents are easily approachable and will put up with our crap.
On another note, parents are not always the most innocent ones either. They have a way to screw up their kids like no one else can :-)
Dont necessarily agree with raaji on the latter point, but yes its true; no one wants to suffer.
Raaji, I agree with both your points
Ali, I agree with you too
Both of you my point is yes people screw you but ultimately you screw your life the most. you may have some disadvantage because of what others did but one thing you always control is your own reaction so why the heck not get up and act rather then whine :(
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